tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post7956743056352850576..comments2023-12-31T20:43:08.499-05:00Comments on THE STILETTO GANG: Lowering Your ExpectationsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-49416302046048765702011-11-22T10:53:44.880-05:002011-11-22T10:53:44.880-05:00Ann, happy Thanksgiving to you, too! I hope you--...Ann, happy Thanksgiving to you, too! I hope you--and your cat--enjoy the new book. I don't take books to Mass either, though sometimes...well, the thought does cross my mind. Thanks for commenting! MaggieMaggie Barbierinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-68621076195993616122011-11-22T10:51:46.036-05:002011-11-22T10:51:46.036-05:00Happy Thanksgiving! My cat and I are waiting pati...Happy Thanksgiving! My cat and I are waiting patiently for our copy of your new book. I have asked Santa for the full set for Christmas and being an excellent Santa's helper with years of practice behind me , I have ordered the books to be delivered to me with the promise to not open until after Mass on Christmas. After Mass because my husband, who in all other things indulges me, refuses to let me take my book or knitting to Church.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17324590425069470539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-46136968868670734792011-11-17T08:22:38.012-05:002011-11-17T08:22:38.012-05:00And the winner of a signed copy of PHYSICAL EDUCAT...And the winner of a signed copy of PHYSICAL EDUCATION is...JUANITA!!! Congratulations! Contact me at maggie_barbieri@yahoo.com and send me your address. As soon as I get my advance copies, I'll get one in the mail to you. (My cat Diego picked you so you can thank him.) MaggieMaggie Barbierinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-26252415990941394512011-11-16T22:49:26.517-05:002011-11-16T22:49:26.517-05:00Nice post, Mags. Happy Thanksgiving to all.
My t...Nice post, Mags. Happy Thanksgiving to all.<br /><br />My two-bits:<br /><br />1) I also make gravy beginning the day before chowing. It' easy:<br /><br />Buy a couple of spare turkey thighs or wings.<br /><br />Salt and pepper nicely and brown them in a big Dutch oven and then de-glaze pan by pouring in one (or more) quarts of purchased turkey stock (Kitchen Basics is a nice brand).<br /><br />Add in any herbs or onion or celery--whatever.<br /><br />Simmer for 45-60 min or so. Remove from heat, strain and discard all solids (the meat is pretty flavorless at this point).<br /><br />Put stock in fridge so fat will collect and chill on top by next day, making excess fat easy to remove (a bit of fat is fine, too much will be too much).<br /><br />Next day, de-fat the stock and warm it.<br /><br />You can make the roux the day before or day of. If made the day before, try to take it out of fridge an hour before you want to start using it:<br /><br />Use 8 T butter and 8 T flour--this can vary, but it's always equal parts flout and fat and each 1 T unit is good to thicken about 8-12 ounces of stock.<br /><br />The gravy with a quart of stock should take about half of an "8 T roux", but you may need more or extra roux can be used another time in the week as a thickener. Better a bit much than too little on hand.<br /><br />Make the roux, add hot stock. Simmer a bit. Take off heat and set aside/put away. Add some of dripping from roasting bird to this. Add any extra roux as you see fit. Can be nice to dice up or shred a bit of roasted thigh meat to the gravy before serving, too.<br /><br />2) I could never, ever write a story without knowing the bones of the story when I start. That is, I cannot produce pages unless I know "whodunit" and at least one reason why at the get-go. That's the kind of nut I am.<br /><br />Gobble-gobble.Vicky Politonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-75884640537281792762011-11-16T17:12:12.629-05:002011-11-16T17:12:12.629-05:00I make a really good Thanksgiving dinner. Actually...I make a really good Thanksgiving dinner. Actually, it was "my" meal given all the families, divorces, etc. But I do not do gravy. My daughter used to make the gravy. And I love brussells sprouts. I actually like the vegetables more than the turkey. Writing may be a little like gravy, but so are a lot of things in life. Enough good things to make every one happy, to balance the things that don't work out. And a little cheating is all right. Happy holiday!lil Glucksternhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09288522126331817172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-5337525834952794162011-11-16T16:19:11.147-05:002011-11-16T16:19:11.147-05:00Maggie, I can't make gravy either! And I love ...Maggie, I can't make gravy either! And I love writing a book from scratch, without a recipe (or outline). Do you think we are secret twins?Maria Geracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02296473703226019932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-56506528723150666312011-11-16T15:03:08.581-05:002011-11-16T15:03:08.581-05:00Oh, how I wish I could come to your house for Than...Oh, how I wish I could come to your house for Thanksgiving dinner! It sounds scrumptious! We're having a "non-Thanksgiving" dinner at our in-laws this year. So it's going to be very relaxed and turkey-free (grilled beef for some--for me, grilled chicken!). Yum. As for the writing...I think I could learn to make gravy faster than I can get this first draft of Little White Lies done. Oy.Susan McBridehttp://susanmcbride.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-45380802761754015672011-11-16T13:59:18.564-05:002011-11-16T13:59:18.564-05:00Who knew you were all gravy slackers like me? (We...Who knew you were all gravy slackers like me? (Well, except for you Tiger, but I would expect nothing less...you're good at everything!) Juanita, I didn't know gravy and writing were connected...the blog was originally only supposed to be about gravy. Marilyn, you've got the right idea, sister. And Carol S, I don't like my guests in the kitchen with me so having them help with the gravy wouldn't work. Is it any wonder I'm called "Sarge" here at home? MaggieMaggie Barbierinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-88042841572946509792011-11-16T12:36:46.998-05:002011-11-16T12:36:46.998-05:00I finally figured out I could make my gravy base a...I finally figured out I could make my gravy base a day or two ahead and just add the pan drippings at the the last minute. Perfect, smooth gravy with no hassles! Wish I could do the same with my writing!cttigerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00707845229199038938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-21026826735186831972011-11-16T11:56:39.038-05:002011-11-16T11:56:39.038-05:00Who knew gravy and writing could be connected? En...Who knew gravy and writing could be connected? Enjoyed reading your blog. I have trouble with gravy also. I buy the packets of turkey gravy and add the drippings to them. It works and no one has complained. They may be afraid too. I would insist they make the gravy next time. Ha! Writing the perfect first draft is a fantasy. I don't really think it can be done. Like you I don't work from an outline. I get all my thoughts down and build onto them.Juanita Olsonhttp://whistleahappytunejuanitao.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-962995682449815542011-11-16T11:28:48.628-05:002011-11-16T11:28:48.628-05:00It took several years for my gravy to be figured o...It took several years for my gravy to be figured out. Nothing wrong with opening cans if you cannot press a guest into making it for you.<br />Carol SAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-44322892597358107062011-11-16T10:51:53.325-05:002011-11-16T10:51:53.325-05:00The older I get the less I do from scratch. Was go...The older I get the less I do from scratch. Was going to make instant mashed potatoes, granddaughter offered to make the real ones and I accepted. I buy the turkey gravy in a jar (many jars) and add the drippings. Oh and we also use paper plates. I'm not going to be stuck doing a million dishes.Marilyn Meredith a.k.a. F. M. Meredithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04179984154939161530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-26389589629388980432011-11-16T09:52:35.625-05:002011-11-16T09:52:35.625-05:00DarcyO, if I add one more thing to my to-do list, ...DarcyO, if I add one more thing to my to-do list, I think I'm going to lose it! Baby steps, right?<br /><br />Dru, I may press your mother into service at some point. Do you think she'd mind? :-) MaggieMaggie Barbierinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-50526823452225157112011-11-16T09:48:50.141-05:002011-11-16T09:48:50.141-05:00I made gravy once and it came out okay. The next ...I made gravy once and it came out okay. The next time was a disaster, which is why I purchase my gravy or better yet, have my mom make it for me.Druhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07978384022143035332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-64966591706231742152011-11-16T09:43:19.128-05:002011-11-16T09:43:19.128-05:00Maggie, I'm definitely in favor of lowering ex...Maggie, I'm definitely in favor of lowering expectations for Thanksgiving. We are just too busy to get everything done. Plus, store-bought pies are much better than my attempts at them! Have a Happy Thanksgiving!<br /><br />dlodden at frontiernet dot netDarcyOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05199033577846312431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-29893515965717459242011-11-16T09:12:51.133-05:002011-11-16T09:12:51.133-05:00Laura, writing and gravy...who knew?
Michele, goo...Laura, writing and gravy...who knew?<br /><br />Michele, good luck with the poetry book. Yes, "Just do it." Or "Butts in chairs" as we writers often intone.<br /><br />Liz, same here, my friend. Same here.<br /><br />Girlygirl, see? You can learn things here at Stiletto Gang. Buying gravy really takes the pressure off because it's time-consuming to make and so fickle. Just get yourself to a local organic grocer or gourmet shop...they all have pre-made gravy that is just as good as if you had made it yourself.<br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving, All! MaggieMaggie Barbierinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-3746189049304126302011-11-16T09:06:40.767-05:002011-11-16T09:06:40.767-05:00I'd never thought about just getting gravy!! ...I'd never thought about just getting gravy!! I can make it, but there's never enough of it for everyone... and/or later turkey openfaced sandwiches...<br />girlygirlhoosier52 (at) yahoo (dot) comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-81676741886581534152011-11-16T08:51:15.746-05:002011-11-16T08:51:15.746-05:00The only "perfect" first drafts I've...The only "perfect" first drafts I've ever written were started the night before the term paper was due.Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-84210668745356341782011-11-16T08:34:01.222-05:002011-11-16T08:34:01.222-05:00I find this both inspiring and timely, in that I&#...I find this both inspiring and timely, in that I've just started writing my first, non-poetry book. "Just do it," is the main message, I suppose. Thank youMichele Harveyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07736434700971972819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-43757221756547790092011-11-16T08:33:36.814-05:002011-11-16T08:33:36.814-05:00Your gravy metaphor actually extends beyond writin...Your gravy metaphor actually extends beyond writing, for me. I used to be a perfectionist in lots of ways. I was on top of EVERYTHING all the time. But it makes you neurotic over time. So, thanks to some eye-opening moments in life, I'm learning to simply do my best. And if my best is store bought gravy poured into my china boat, than that's A-Ok with me.<br /><br />Fun post, Maggie!Laura Bradfordhttp://www.laurabradford.comnoreply@blogger.com