tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post108358507674884437..comments2023-12-31T20:43:08.499-05:00Comments on THE STILETTO GANG: Infidelity Investigations: E-Catching the CheaterUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-16499544355044426322011-07-24T13:00:30.681-04:002011-07-24T13:00:30.681-04:00Congrats, Jaie!!! :-)
Cheers,
SusanCongrats, Jaie!!! :-)<br /><br />Cheers,<br />SusanSusan McBridehttp://SusanMcBride.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-69372424150195571362011-07-23T13:04:14.231-04:002011-07-23T13:04:14.231-04:00Awesome! I just want to say thanks for the gift! I...Awesome! I just want to say thanks for the gift! I just downloaded it and haven't had a chance to read through it all yet but did a quick scan and am really enthusiastic about this read. Not only does it touch base on the "little" things I'm interested in for detail's sake (pretexting, obtaining records, etc.) it's also a great refresher course to many of the criminal investigation classes I already have under my belt. Looking forward to the read. <br /><br />Thanks again,<br /><br />JaieJaie D. Maclanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13820857922403729666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-22392192478844529422011-07-22T14:36:06.153-04:002011-07-22T14:36:06.153-04:00Hi Nora,
To answer your question >>is it di...Hi Nora,<br /><br />To answer your question >>is it difficult to handle the emotional fallout of this kind of investigation? How do you deal with this on a personal level? And can it make you paranoid about you own relationships?<<<br /><br />Sometimes it's difficult to handle the emotional fallout in infidelity investigations. We've had people cry to us, and we do our best to be supportive, mostly by listening.<br /><br />On a personal level, some of these stories might remind us about incidences one or both of us personally experienced in our long-ago past. We might share this with a client ("I discovered infidelity years ago, too, so I empathize with what you're going through").<br /><br />Are we paranoid about our own relationship? Well, we're "people of a certain age," and our marriage is the second for both of us, so we value what we have.<br /><br />Interestingly enough, we've only had two "golden oldie" cheating cases, and in both one of the spouses had allowed the other to fool around...then things got out of hand.Colleen-Shaunhttp://writingpis.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-89528962028838467682011-07-22T14:22:07.829-04:002011-07-22T14:22:07.829-04:00Hi everyone, hope you're all enjoying your Fri...Hi everyone, hope you're all enjoying your Fridays.<br /><br />Jaie, we also tend to read more hard-boiled and noir mysteries, but it's interesting how some of those stories start with the PI thinking he/she's taking on a simple cheating case when it's actually the tip of the iceberg.<br /><br />Like the movie Chinatown...it's a "I think my husband's been cheating" case that first comes into Jake Gittes's office...then it unravels into a much bigger crime he's investigating.<br /><br />We've never had that happen in our real-life investigations business, however.<br /><br />And it is fun to read about investigations, isn't it? We also recommend "A Complete Idiot's Guide to Private Investigating" by Steven K. Brown.Colleen-Shaunhttp://writingpis.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-76093000509009715462011-07-22T13:35:15.091-04:002011-07-22T13:35:15.091-04:00Thank you for your informative post. My protagonis...Thank you for your informative post. My protagonist is an amateur, but has a research background. Even though she's not an official PI, I wouldn't want her operating outside the law. <br /><br />I have a question for you: is it difficult to handle the emotional fallout of this kind of investigation? How do you deal with this on a personal level? And can it make you paranoid about you own relationships? (Oopsies -- that was 3 questions -- sorry!)Noranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-10721766423557613782011-07-22T10:42:46.205-04:002011-07-22T10:42:46.205-04:00I'll definitely be checking out this book. My ...I'll definitely be checking out this book. My PI interests mainly lie in the hardboiled and noir genres and less in "cheating spouse" cases but reading about investigation methods is fun in and of itself. I try to stay informed on the latest techniques in this field but some of the most "recent" and well known books out there are more than a few years old. Looking forward to this book's release for sure. Thanks for the tip! <br /><br />Jaie,<br /><br />thefourthace@hotmail.comJaie D. Maclanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13820857922403729666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1025201337316610324.post-13821689677735215352011-07-22T09:16:18.883-04:002011-07-22T09:16:18.883-04:00Thanks for joining us today, Colleen and Shaun! A...Thanks for joining us today, Colleen and Shaun! And thanks for talking about cheating spouses. With all the cheaters in the headlines lately, I think it's very interesting to imagine how different scenarios could play out in a mystery!<br /><br />Cheers,<br />SusanSusan McBridehttp://SusanMcBride.comnoreply@blogger.com